You’re Lovely

Self-image is a topic that is constantly being discussed by women. They are trying to tell us that we shouldn’t compare ourselves to the girls on the covers of magazines, and there are numerous videos that prove that women and girls underestimate their beauty, their smarts, and their overall affect on the world. Truth is, we don’t believe in ourselves as much as we should. We nitpick the smallest things and we always find faults within ourselves. I can post a “real” picture of me on Instagram and talk about my imperfections — that’s not hard. What is hard is asking me what I love about myself.

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Why is this question not asked more constantly? Why are we looked down upon or laughed at when we say what we love about ourselves? Why? These are real questions. I’m challenging you ask yourself what you love most about you and tell someone. Tell us! We want to know what you think your best feature is, whether that be physical or emotional or whatever. Confidence is the most amazing accessory that a girl can have (yes, confidence is even more amazing than a Chanel bag). So to kick things off, my mom and I are both going to list three things that we love about ourselves:

Chloe: the fact that my hair can be straightened or curled (and stay that way all day), the ability to laugh and make fun of myself, and my smile

Kim: my big lips (which took me a very long time to embrace), my love for my family, my adaptability

self esteem quote

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Please leave us a comment telling us what you love most about yourself! This is a no judgment zone so don’t be afraid of what anyone else will think. You know yourself better than anyone else so you should be the one to tell us the best part about you!

xox ~chloe

 

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  • http://www.adishofdailylife.com/ Michelle Nahom

    Hmmmm….I never really think about this. I think I have good legs. :)

  • http://spashionista.com/ Spashionista

    I’m tenacious, brave, and honest (sometimes to my own detriment). I’ve got great boobs, too! You’re right, we can be too hard on ourselves. It’s important to acknowledge the positive ;-)

    Alicia
    http://spashionista.com

  • http://momsrelease.wordpress.com/ Suzanne

    Great topic and oh so true! I have to say I love my commitment to my kids and my hubby…and I also kinda love my hair! lol!

  • Neidelyn

    I loved loved loved this post! I agree with you both 100%. Loving yourself is so important. My best feature? Hm…I’d say my smile! :)
    xo,
    Neidelyn
    {getupanddressup.blogspot.com}

  • Bourbon Blush

    First of all, I love EVERYTHING about this post! This is such a relevant topic, and such a great post! You ladies are so wonderful! I love that I am not judgey, I have a wonderful smile, and I’m resourceful.

    Just for the record, I think you are both brilliant!
    xo
    Christy

  • http://abeautifulrawr.com/ Linh Vo

    Aww what an awesome post. I love that I have my father’s hands - strong, rough, and hardworking. I also love the person I’ve become since becoming a mother. The amount of love I have poured out has honestly surprised me….that I could love someone more than anything else in the world.
    Linh
    http://abeautifulrawr.com

  • Kira

    wonderful, wonderful post. I love the topic of self confidence, it is so empowering!

    kira
    {apairofchicpearls.blogspot.com}

  • Therese

    You make us think that’s what I love #lovely post

  • Tish

    I love my red hair and freckles. They make me…me!

  • Together we roam

    I echo Kira’s comment. What a wonderful post. But commenting on what I love about myself is so hard! Ok I love… gah… eeek… ugh… not ready. Will get back to you. xo

  • Pam McCormick

    Great Post! :) I love my smile… as I tend to find little things in life funny, so I guess I smile a lot. At least that’s what they tell me. :)

  • Raechelle Rach Masuda

    Very neat idea. I feel a little self conscious since there are a few things I love about myself. My positive nature and my creativity are definitely at the top! Being a role model for my daughters when it comes to their self image is so important to me.

  • Phoebe Thomas

    What a great post; I’m reading it as I eat my breakfast so it’s a good way to start the day. I’ve alwasy loved my hands. They’re elegant and weel-shaped. There, I’ve said it! Commenting from SITS

  • nicole orriëns

    At the moment I like my hair. I recently got a perm, and now it looks all perky!
    http://www.momfever.com

  • Raquel

    I truly care about others and I do not worry about pleasing others. Life is far to short for that and there needs to be more kindness in the world so I try to do my part. I am very appreciative of the blessings (not necessary physical blessings LOL, but the people) God has put in my life.

  • http://www.sayitrahshay.com Rachee

    My teen struts around declaring that she is “So Attractive!” I love the confidence. I think my smile is fantastic and I love showing it.

  • http://www.nofearoffashion.com/ No fear of fashion

    No idea why we are so fond of putting ourselves down, but you are right, we do. We are our own ennemies. So here I’ll go with my three great things: my legs (long and well shaped), my laugh (very loud, very often, very contagious), my honesty/sincerity (I don’t lie). And the fact that my husband is now listing so many more things he thinks are lovely about me. Great, the best gift on this Valentines Day.
    Greetje

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    You do have great legs which is why you look so fantastic in those Max Mara skinny jeans!! One day I’ll hear your laugh… and I’m a HUGE fan of your sincerity! I hope you had a very romantic Valentine’s Day with him telling you all sorts of compliments:)

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    Then you need to add fabulous mom to your list! If your teen has confidence then you should be proud of helping instill that in her. Love her attitude!!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    WHat a nice way to put it - you care about others yet don’t worry about pleasing them. It is a fine line, but ti sounds like you have done a great job of finding it. Kudos to you!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    Enjoy your good hair day… and hope it lasts a long time!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    My husband has always looked at a woman’s hands - I’m so glad you mentioned yours. He’ll be so happy to hear that someone put it on their list!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    DItto on the last one… (It’s Kim responding although Chloe wrote the post). It’s hard to always stay positive about ourselves, especially in front of our teens. I loved that she wrote this post and it’s a great reminder - especially to me - to stop being so critical of myself in front of her!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    That is wonderful - everyone should smile more. Although if your friends tell you this, then you are obviously a step ahead of most people!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    I hope you do!!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    We LOVE freckles!!!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    I think your not being “judgey” is what draws people to you. No matter what, you are not critical - it’s such a great asset to have! You definitely have a beautiful smile and yes ma’am, you are resourceful. I don’t think there is anything beyond your capabilities!!!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    From your photo you have gorgeous hair!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    Love it!!! Let’s give it up for the tatas!!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    I know, I’m so glad Chloe wrote this and forced us to turn the table on ourselves. I bet we could all list the negatives without even thinking. But I bet your friends and family could list 10 positives without even thinking!!!

  • http://momsrelease.wordpress.com/ Suzanne

    Lol! Thanks! (Now I feel silly…haa!)

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    I hope we made you feel good… not silly :) And we love the commitment to family!!!

  • http://momsrelease.wordpress.com/ Suzanne

    Oh you did! I’m just a perfect example of what your post is all about…don’t like tooting my own horn, but there’s not a thing wrong with doing so! I’m so glad I read your post! :)

  • http://www.reaalducente.com/ Rea Alducente

    One good thing I’ve already overcome in my life is insecurity. I believe I’m more secure and confident of who I am now even in the physical aspect. I grew up being compared with my cousin who’s fair-skinned and I’m brown-skinned.. but as I grew up, a lot of people compliment my skin color and said that they like it so I started being more comfortable in my own skin. I love my skin now than ever before. :) I also love my shiny black hair and my large eyes… I think it’s always nice to find something good about yourself, it makes you more confident and positive!

  • Natalie Bowlds Christensen

    This is so sweet. I love the calligraphy validations…. need to put them on the mirror. I have to say the older I get the more I am starting to believe it-some days:)

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    Good idea to put them on a mirror… then we’d have constant reminders so we could have a positive affirmation every day! And you should believe them :) since you ARE lovely!

  • http://www.popcosmo.com/ PopCosmo

    Such a positive attitude! It’s funny how our perception about ourselves changes as we grow older and we start to appreciate what made us different. And I agree - your eyes, skin and hair are gorgeous!!!!